You organize a team with a goal. Your goal summons people. As a owner or team leader, your work is to bring out the best in every team member, while a team member may seem smart than you, he is smart as an individual to express his intelligence or wisdom, while you are smart at achieving goals.You are a goal achiever while he is a wisdom possessor. While he wants his wisdom to be recognized, you want your goals to be achieved and you are wise enough to be willing to sacrifice displaying your individual wisdom for achieving your goals. While he is satisfying with himself for thinking up stratagems to achieve small internal goals, you are satisfying with yourself for leveraging resources to achieve a big overall goal. You lead them because you know why to do things, they are valuable to you because they know how to do things. Generals know how to fight a battle, but the emperor knows the significance of fighting a battle, the emperor knows why to fight a battle. The humankind on the earth as societies evolve by helping each other and working together. Societies in this world progress by two ways, one is to help each other, another one is to work together. By harnessing the two ways, you can achieve more than you can achieve alone. They are tools. Human kind progress so fast and differentiate them from other animal species in the world because humankind can use tools. Unless hammer,sickle, bow and arrow, helping each other and working together are invisible social tools. Humankind understand that they don't have to show the world their power by means of their talons and fangs like a tiger or lion, instead, they know that they can use external tools like machines, guns, rockets, vehicles to show how powerful they are.
Some independent people are actually social hermits.
While world class are working on living a big life and a wonderful life and enjoying big freedom, able people are working on letting the society recognize their excellence, able people, when they were young, were told, or subtly hinted or enlightened by their parents and their environment that they were not good enough the way they were unless they could be able to prove to people that they were excellent, this instillation was like digging a pit in their psychological body, once dug, their work after that was to try to be excellent and gain people's recognition by showing their excellence to repair the pit in their psychological body, their entire adult life is more likely a redemption for the psychological pit left on their mind at their early age. The world class don't have this psychological pit, all they do in their adult life is to try to achieve their goals and enjoy self-created freedom and live a big and wonderful life.
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