Do you like to compare yourself with people in achievements

Since  different people came from a different background and had different experiences, or experienced similar experience at different ages, therefore we might achieve in different areas of life in different ages, since we couldn’t or didn’t know to influence ourselves until we were enlightened, before we were enlightened, we were passively influenced by our outer experience, although we can choose how we act after we are enlightened, we can’t choose when we will be enlightened, therefore we can’t choose when we will achieve something in life areas. Because of that, there is no meaning to compare us with people in achieving something at what age.