Forget self, accept everything, interact with Tao

You have to forget self to better serve self. You have to forget the existence of self to better serve self. You should not attach to self.  No attachment to self. You accept everything, you accept everything towards yourself, you accept everything in the world, you work with Tao, to achieve your goal. You accept that people despise you, because there is no "you"; you accept that people don't respect you, because there is no "you"; you accept that people reject you, because there is no "you"; you accept that people don't know that you have the deepest, grandest wisdom, because there is no "you".

You have to forget self to see the existence of Tao, to interact with Tao.
When you interact with the external world, you are interacting with Tao. When you forget to forget self when you are interacting with Tao. If you can not forget self, you can not interact with Tao, you are interacting with self.  You should not be attached to your feelings, your cognition, your values, your beliefs when you are interacting with the external world, when you are interacting with the external world, you should be attached to Tao. Tao is the principles and laws that the world operates on.

When you are communicating with the internal, you should forget self, you should accept everything. Accept that people despise you, accept that people don't respect you, accept that people think that they are nobler than you, accept that people think they have deeper wisdom than you, accept that people think they are correct while you're wrong,  accept that people want to display that they are correct and you are wrong, accept that people want to be pleased with themselves by comparing with you and showing that they are correct while you're wrong, accept that people want to be pleased with themselves by comparing with you and showing that they have deeper wisdom than you, accept that people want to be pleased with themselves by comparing with you and showing that they are deep while you are shallow.

The ultimate wisdom is paradox.

You can succeed easily when you interact with Tao wholeheartedly.